Send us a text In this juicy new episode of Big Sexy Chat, Chrystal and Merf are back with updates, laughter, and deep dives into fat pleasure, power exchange, and the ways we signal our sexy truths to the world. 🎙️ Merf shares her exciting new job and consulting biz helping survivors of trauma, plus her upcoming debut as a dominatrix (meet Madam Cyn)! 💬 Chrystal talks about her recent seminar, and the joys of building body-positive merch from scratch. 🔥 Together, they explore BDSM dungeon d...
Play Latest EpisodeSend us a text In this juicy new episode of Big Sexy Chat, Chrystal and Merf are back with updates, laughter, and deep dives into fat pleasure, power exchange, and the ways we signal our sexy truths to the world. 🎙️ Merf shares her exciting new job and consulting biz helping survivors of trauma, pl…
Send us a text Traveling while fat? Oh, we’re going there — and we’re taking the aisle seat and the window. In this episode of Big Sexy Chat, Chrystal and Merf are joined by the incomparable Jen McLellan: author, speaker, certified childbirth educator, and the force behind Plus Size Birth and the P…
Send us a text In this juicy, gear-loving episode, Chrystal and Merf sit down with Rin Musick—award-winning road warrior, longtime adult retail expert, and current Brand Ambassador for Sportsheets. Together, they dive into fat-positive and accessible design in the world of BDSM and sex gear, includ…
Send us a text Chrystal’s out, which means Merf and Asherlee are left unsupervised—and naturally, chaos ensues. But beneath the laughter, we get real. We talk about fat liberation, therapy fails, the touch-deprivation epidemi...
Send us a text Chrystal and Merf welcome the incomparable Marie Denee, founder of The Curvy Fashionista , for a real-talk episode packed with fashion, fire, and fat joy. Marie shares her journey from launching a blog in 2008 ...
Send us a text Chrystal and Merf are back with a bold and juicy new episode diving into Fat Con 2025, kink exploration, and radical fat liberation. 💥 Merf shares her journey into kink—including rope classes made for fat bodie...
A collaborative review from the Big Sexy Chat team Most mattresses aren’t made for us. They’re made for small to mid-size bodies, bodies that fit neatly into mainstream design specs. The rest of us? We’re left with creaking sprin…
At Big Sexy Chat, we’re all about turning up the volume on pleasure—especially when it comes to fat bodies, disabled bodies, and the folks who are constantly left out of the mainstream sex narrative. So when we got the chance to try out …
Heavy on the Pleasure An inclusive guide to self-pleasure for fat, disabled, and chronically ill bodies. INTRO: THE MISSING Manual Let’s be real: most “solo pleasure” articles seem like they were written for people with unlimite…