Episodes

Send us a Text Message. Hey friends: This is our year-in-review podcast. Merf, Asherlee, and I talk about our HIGHLIGHTS of the COOL things that happened to various rad fatties in the world. Merf also prepared a "round robin" style set of questions that we all answered. She asked us our favorite episodes, our favorite guests, and new topics for 2023. I shared my PIE IN THE SKY list of my "dream" guests: Bridget Everett (Here is a link to Bridget's website.) http://www.bridgeteverett.net/ And, ...

Send us a Text Message. Support the Show. BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at Sexy@BigSexyChat.com. You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat. Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPod Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!) Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.c...

Send us a Text Message. The always fabulous Fat Liberationist and Fat Activist Ragen Chastain joins Merf and me for a discussion about how to Survive Fatphobia (and your fatphobic friends and family) during the holidays. Sign up for her substack / newsletter. It's fabulous,too! Help Ragen continue to do this important work! https://weightandhealthcare.substack.com/ Become a Member of Ragen's blog DancesWithFat.org It is only $10 to become a member and take advantage of her special offers. But,...

#SendMerfBoobs On this episode of Big Sexy Chat, Chrystal was away so Merf and Asherlee (the Big Sexy Chat editor) played! They talked sex questions people are afraid to ask, Merf's special voice talents, giant hampsters, and so much more! Support the show

Help us by supporting our show with a $3 donation here: https://www.bigsexychat.com/support/ Special guest, Amazon Goddess Amanda https://amazonamanda.com/ We start off with a quick discussion of Merf marrying (again) her husband. The special news is that Merf and hubby were married by THE actual Kevin Smith of Clerk's fame. He was in the Sac area to promote Clerks 3 - which Merf loved. Then we welcomed our fab guest, Amazon Amanda. She tells us all about life as an Amazon. Fully clothed and s...

www.bigsexychat.com This episode begins with a discussion between Merf and me about the movie "The Whale. Merf and I share our takes on Brendan, the dreaded "fat suit" and all of the fat phobia that comes up for both of us thanks to this horrific movie. Be sure to sign up for our newsletter to enter our giveaway for a liberator sex blanket. www.Liberator.com So grateful to Ryan of All Lubed Up And Nowhere To Go. Fun conversations with Ryan about sex toy innovations like the BallDo, a toy for...

I know this will not surprise anyone, but Merf & I are Sex Work Positive. We are going to discuss some sex work in this episode. (please write a review for us and get 5 extra entries into our next drawing. write it on any of the sites or on our own site here: https://www.bigsexychat.com/reviews/ ) Curvy kindergarten art teacher who has a "voluptuous" body is creating drama in her home town in New Jersey. This created an intense discussion on my Curvy Girl: Fat Liberation FB page: Comments ab...

August is Anal Sex Month!! Tips for comfortable anal sex with Lulu Batista from Ohhlulucherrybox.com. https://linktr.ee/luluinc83 https://www.youtube.com/c/TheLulusCherryBoxReviews https://oohlulucherrybox.com/ Lulu and Chrystal discuss tips for anal play that is safe and healthy. (Remember, no one ever has to have anal sex and anything sexual should come with ENTHUSIASTIC CONSENT and everyone should be sober while negotiating this experience. Great tips and advice, Lulu. The second half of th...

Fat Liberation Artwork designed by: @studiobatslangely Happy Fat Liberation month. Be sure to check out the artwork that Bats Langley created for NAAFA.org. It's ahhhmazing! You can see it on the NAAFA.org page, btw. I hope you will sign up for our newsletter on our website: www.BigSexyChat.com - we send out about 2 newsletters each month. Plus, we have a BRAND NEW sponsor (our first sponsor) and we are SO excited. More info soon! Fat Liberation Month August 2022Welcome my co-host, Merf. Our fab...

Current Events : Listener Questions : Hot Topics Vibe of the Week with Special Guest Marina Hayes (The Rose Vibe : link here.) (Marina is the founder and creator of www.PeridotRobes.com) Welcome Sydney the Fat_TroublemakrCurrent Events: We discuss how much we love the show on Netflix “How to Build a Sex Room” Melanie Rose is the host and she is the British Naughty Mary Poppins. Merf & Chrystal both LOVE IT! Netflix has a hit on its hands. Welcome Sydney out very own #Fat_Troublemakr 10:59 Sydney...

Welcome to Big Sexy Chat! We start off with a content warning about CNC. (Consensual Non-Consent) I explained why I missed a couple of weeks thanks to pneumonia. I'm better now. Merf: It feels like the end of the world. ALL of the progress that we made have been erased. Chrystal knows 4 people who have checked themselves into a mental health facility. Life is dark right now. Merf gives us lots of great info about coping skills and all of us just trying to survive. (Supreme Court, Roe v. Wade, C...

Bonus Episode: Merf interviews Tigress and me about our 2 Fat Hysterectomies Bonus Episode: Heavy Duty Hysterectomies Welcome Tigress Osborn Creator of Full Figure Entertainment in Oakland, CA Tigress now lives in Arizona. Fat Visibility and Fat Activism since 2008: If you are a fat person and enjoy some type of fat freedom fatties did not have before 2008, it’s likely Tigress had her hand in it. (Along with a lot of other fabulous, loud, no shit style fat activists. Thank you Tigress and to th...

Profanity Warning! I drop a lot of F BOMBS because I am fed up with diet culture and the diet industry and how they work so hard to make us feel shitty about our bodies. Also, we do get into a discussion about Anorexia and how Fat Babes can also have Anorexia, so content warning about Eating Disorders. We discuss body shame, shame about sex or feeling horny, shame about sex toys, shame about our ANYTHING, and EVERYTHING. We hope this podcast helps you to overcome your own fat shame. We decided...

Polyamory is our topic for this episode and we were so delighted to have Sydney on our podcast to help dispel Polyamory Myths. Sydney LIVES the polyamorous life. She has a husband she nests with. She has a wife who is her bestie and she is married to her, but they do not have sex. And, she has two male partners in her polycule. And, they all practice radical honesty - which is the key to almost all relationships. And, radical honesty is REQUIRED if you are polyamorous. She very clearly describe...

Merf and I have a very necessary discussion about the pitiful showing of pron that includes fat babes that are NOT dehumanizing. Fortunately, some people are making it! In the intro, we discuss how DISGUSTING the "don't say gay" bill that was put forth by the bigot and asshole Governor DeSantis in Florida. Here is info from the AP about this bigoted antiquated bill : AP Article I brought this topic up because that is ironic and hilarious how you have to say the word "Gay" every time you talk ...

**Content Warning** Please note at the [44:00] minute mark, dieting and bodybuilding are briefly discussed. If these topics are a trigger for you, please take care of yourself and skip ahead to the minute mark [48:00]. http://www.MistressJStudios.com Our podcast website is http://www.BigSexyChat.com where you can find our other podcasts. My sex toy website is http://www.BlissConnection.com In this episode, Merf and I interview my friend Mistress J about her career as a professional dominatri...

Big Sexy Chat Podcast: Episode 5 we spend a lot of time talking about foreplay and our favorite lubricants. We discuss lubes for handies, piv, and best lube for anal sex. Merf tells us how much she is loving Lizzo's new reality show - and how their reality show formula is about building each other up and not tearing each other down. How refreshing. The show is called "Let's Hear It For the Big Grrrls." Personally, I am loving the show, too. I am 3 episodes in so far. And, I have seen a lot of ...

Episode 4: Merf & I chit-chat about ENTHUSIASTIC consent, BDSM, Kink, and all kinds of other fun. We also discuss Renee Zelwegget wearing a fat suit in her lastest fatphobic role. I despise anyone wearing a fat suit. There are plenty of fat actors to hire. It's gross and should NEVERs be done - EVER. It's never ok. Thanks to a listener question, we had a fantastic discussion about fetishizing bodies; How to decide if your partner or date is fetishizing you are really into ALL of you? We also c...

This is our very first interview with a guest. We had a great time chatting with the creator of the Adipostivity Project, Substantia Jones. We had a few sound issues, but thanks to our fabulous editor, it sounds great. Thank you, Asherlee. We appreciate you. If you would like to be photographed for the Adipositivity Project, you can email Substantia at adipositivity @ gmail.com - No fat shamers, assholes, or jerks, please. Substantia also shared a few fun stories about awkward sex stories, fa...

Episode 2 is here! Merf and I are getting in our groove. (I need to get the microphone closer to my mouth.) Are you too fat for lingerie? HELL NO! We discuss why do people feel like they might be and how to get over that NOW. We mention some of our other fat activist friends like Marcy Cruz, Saucye West, and Substantia Jones of the Adipositivity Project. (So grateful to all of them for their activism.) You can find the Sex Sling on my website www.BlissConnection.com We LOVE Sportsheets brand ...

Episode 1 : BigSexyChat.com Reach out via email to Sexy@BigSexyChat.com We are two unapologetically rad fatties sitting around chewing the fat. Current Events Hot Topics Listener Email and Questions Vibe of the Week (S*x toy reviews!) (Merf reviews the Unicorn.) We will talk about all things fat! Looking for more sex toys, appliances, furniture, vibrators that work and were designed for fat babes. Artwork by Les Toil : Thank you to Les for the gorgeous logo! Support the show