Episodes

Send us a Text Message. Ever felt like you're a square peg being nudged into a round hole? That's the daily reality for many fat individuals navigating a society that's often less than accommodating. Buckle up as I, Susie Hooker, and the renowned Dr. Kristen Auber join forces with the effervescent Murph and Crystal from Big Sexy Chat. Together, we unravel the layers of fat sexuality, the battle for justice, and the victories that come with living authentically large. Expect a spread of topics as...

Send us a Text Message. As the curtain falls on another vibrant season of Big Sexy Chat, we can't help but bask in the glow of our favorite moments and the electric anticipation for what's around the corner. Picture us at Fat Con in Seattle, mingling with fellow advocates, sharing laughter and forging deeper connections within the fat liberation movement. It's been a year of profound growth, from reveling in Aubrey Gordon's melodic wisdom to tackling the pervasive issue of medical fatphobia head...

Send us a Text Message. Join us for a heartfelt chat with Amy Pence-Brown, a body image activist who's changing the narrative around body acceptance. This isn't your typical conversation, as we traverse the diverse facets of Amy's life - from standing blindfolded in a marketplace clad in a bikini to her roles as a poet, blogger, fat liberationist, and feminist. This episode provides a front-row seat to Amy's vulnerability and her relentless advocacy for acceptance of all body sizes. We don't st...

Send us a Text Message. Are you ready to take your intimate moments to a whole new level? This episode promises a fun and open discussion about our favorite sex toys and aids. From the unassuming yet miraculous coconut oil that Merf swears by, to the infamously named but game-changing "Womanizer", we've got plenty of tips and tricks to enhance your pleasure. We also discuss the importance of skincare, given the high concentration of nerve endings in certain areas, and dive into a frank discussio...

Send us a Text Message. Ever been caught in an uncomfortable situation just because you're in a larger body? Want to find places where you can be comfortable without the fear of judgment? Our guest for today, Nyemade, shares her experiences that led her to join the team of AllGo, a Yelp-like review app designed specifically for fat people. Born out of her and AllGo founder, Rebecca's, struggles to find non-fat phobic doctors and other services, AllGo aims to create a world where people of all si...

Send us a Text Message. How often do you find yourself grappling with societal pressures about body image or worrying about the implications of taking diabetes medication? If these questions resonate with you, then our latest episode of Big Sexy Chat is right up your alley. We don't shy away from the hard stuff, in fact, we dive right into a poignant discussion about Metformin and Ozempic, and their potential ramifications. Merf offers insights from his personal experiences with these medication...

Send us a Text Message. Do theme parks cater to all body sizes? Let's explore this with Sam, our Disney expert and advocate for inclusivity in the theme park industry. Growing up as a larger-bodied individual, Sam's journey to self-acceptance has been an inspiration. Hear her candid stories about facing weight-based discrimination and how her unwavering sense of justice has shaped her identity. Discover how her love for Disney was born from the joy she found in the inclusive rides that accommoda...

Send us a Text Message. Ever wrestled with a standard airplane seatbelt, praying for just an inch more of slack? Ever felt the unwelcome scrutiny of fellow passengers as you board, the silent judgment heavy as lead? Buckle up for a journey through the not-so-friendly skies as we tackle the unspoken challenges of flying while fat. We'll shine a spotlight on the airline industry's troubling approach to passenger comfort and examine the implications of policies that squeeze profits at the expense o...

Send us a Text Message. Prepare for an eye-opening and inspiring dialogue between your hosts, yours truly, and two incredible women in the world of body positivity – the remarkable Morgie Mone, and the insightful Lindsy from Big Fig Mattress Company. As we take an enlightening journey through the world of fat liberation, you'll discover how Morgie has crafted a powerful platform for encouraging self-love and embracing our bodies, just as they are. Along the way, we'll shine a spotlight on Big Fi...

Send us a Text Message. Ever wondered how fat representation in media is evolving? We're taking the conversation head-on, exploring the latest characters in shows like Never Say Never and Survival of the Thickest. We are also chuffed to chat about the upcoming Fat is Fashion documentary and Bridget Everett's new show. But, it's not all roses. We tackle some tough topics like the extreme dieting actors undertake for roles, and the societal implications that come with it. We also get real about t...

Send us a Text Message. What would it mean to you if you could be part of a community that not only recognizes your talents but also celebrates your uniqueness? Imagine an environment where plus-size individuals are valued and their contributions to their industry are rewarded. This is exactly the world, Tawana Blassingame, Executive Producer of The Full Figured Industry Awards and CEO, Editor in Chief of Queen Size Magazine. We are privileged to sit down with her in this episode as she shares h...

Send us a Text Message. Oh, my stars! We're buzzing with anticipation as we welcome the effervescent Mx. Pucks A'Plenty, co-founder of FatCon.org, into our auditory space! Brace yourself for an invigorating conversation that spans the universe of event planning, fat positivity, and the power of community. Buckle in as we unpack the details of FatCon, a festival that's set to resound with the joy of celebrating all bodies. From tantalizing fashion shows to engaging keynote speakers, this event is...

Send us a Text Message. Imagine the possibilities when combining the powerful worlds of sex and cannabis. That's exactly what Ashley Manta, an award-winning sex and relationship coach, has done by creating the term "Cannasexual", which she defines as "mindfully and deliberately combining sex and cannabis to deepen intimacy and enhance pleasure." We had the chance to explore Ashley's personal journey with cannabis, how it has changed her sex life, and her expansion into the realm of psychedelics ...

Send us a Text Message. Are you ready for an empowering and entertaining conversation exploring the world of body positivity and self-love? Join your favorite hosts, Crystal and Merf, as we discuss the crucial work of the National Association for the Advancement of Fat Acceptance (NAAFA) in advocating for fat people's rights, particularly in the medical field. We also tackle the pressing issues of fat-phobia, discrimination in the workplace, and the power of holding people accountable for their ...

Send us a Text Message. The hiatus is over! We're back and going deep in it... deep into updating about why we went on a brief hiatus in April, deep into grief, deep into emotions, and finally deep into an exciting new vibe of the week! We discuss cancer, abortion, death, and prostate play. We like to keep you on your toes. Adulting sucks. We missed you. We are back in the saddle. Merf gives us a review of the Vector 2 by We-vibe. She and her husband loved it. They give it 4.5 stars out of 5. ...

Send us a Text Message. Interview with NAAFA.org about getting legislation passed in NYC that makes it illegal to discriminate against Fat people. Thank you to Tigress & Tegan for this fantastic and super informative interview. ** As of today, the NYC legislation passed. May 17th is our publish date. Support the Show. BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at Sexy@BigSexyChat.com. Y...

Send us a Text Message. We discussed Aubrey's newest book "You just need to lose weight, and 19 other myths about fat people." Merf and I had the absolute honor of interviewing Aubrey Gordon - also known as "Your Fat Friend" and co-host of the wildly popular podcast, "Maintenance Phase." Thank you, Aubrey. We had a blast and hope you did, too. Merf starts off by describing to Aubrey why she loved the style of her new book, "You Just Need to Lose Weight." We loved her writing style, how the cha...

Send us a Text Message. How to raise kids that are not fat-phobic assholes. Thanks to Jen McLellan, the founder of Plus Mommy, PlusBirth.com, and the creator of Plus Mommy Podcast for her amazing interview. Asherlee stepped in to help me interview Jen while Merf was off having a few fun days in Atascadero. Thanks, Adherlee. We discussed so many topics about getting competent health care for your kids. Jen and Asherlee give some really great advice for dealing with your kids' healthcare provide...

Send us a Text Message. Linnea Marie can be described as an enthusiastic advocate for self-love and sex positivity. She is a Board Certified Educator and Clinical Sexuality Coach. Throughout the years Linnea has empowered the masses with knowledge of sex, sexuality, relationships, anatomy, and pleasure products. She is able to share her knowledge through her coaching services, classes, parties, and social platforms. Her ultimate goal is to encourage, educate, and sprinkle sex-positive inclusive ...

Send us a Text Message. Season 2 - We are very excited to publish our first podcast of 2023. Full of fat and Sassy information and opinions. The first half, Merf and I interview each other so you all can get to know us better. I definitely learned lots of new stuff about Merf! She learned I do not drink coffee! Blasphemy, I know. We rage, I mean discuss, the b.s. going on with Ozempic and Wegovy. (Celebrities using it for vanity purposes and leaving diabetics to have to figure out how to get m...