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Big Sexy Chat
Big Sexy Chat
Big Sexy Chat is a bold, unfiltered podcast exploring fatness, pleasure, identity, and the realities of living in a body the world wasn’t built for.Hosted by Chrystal, the show features candid conversations with guests across the fat, sex-positive, and body liberation communities. Together, they dig into everything from relationships, intimacy, and adaptive sex, to medical bias, media representation, mental health, and the politics of existing out loud.This isn’t surface-level body positivity. It’s deeper, messier, and more honest.Big Sexy Chat creates space for stories that don’t get told often enough, centering fat voices without apology, without shame, and without shrinking to fit someone else’s comfort.Expect real talk, hard truths, humor, and moments that stay with you.Because pleasure, dignity, and visibility aren’t luxuries… they’re rights.
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Big Sexy Chat

Big Sexy Chat

Big Sexy Chat is a bold, unfiltered podcast exploring fatness, pleasure, identity, and the realities of living in a body the world wasn’t built for.

Hosted by Chrystal, the show features candid conversations with guests across the fat, sex-positive, and body liberation communities. Together, they dig into everything from relationships, intimacy, and adaptive sex, to medical bias, media representation, mental health, and the politics of existing out loud.

This isn’t surface-level body positivity. It’s deeper, messier, and more honest.

Big Sexy Chat creates space for stories that don’t get told often enough, centering fat voices without apology, without shame, and without shrinking to fit someone else’s comfort.

Expect real talk, hard truths, humor, and moments that stay with you.

Because pleasure, dignity, and visibility aren’t luxuries… they’re rights.

Recent Episodes

Plus-Size Pleasure That Actually Fits
June 4, 2026

Plus-Size Pleasure That Actually Fits

Send us Fan Mail Most pleasure products are designed as if everyone has long arms, effortless flexibility, and a body that never changes. That assumption quietly shuts out fat folks and people with disabilities, then asks us to blame our bodies when the toy is hard to hold, the buttons are impossib…

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Get Your Ass On The Pole
April 12, 2026

Get Your Ass On The Pole

Send us Fan Mail The gym can feel like a test you’re doomed to fail, especially when the world treats your body like public property. Chrystal sits down with Roz the Diva, a plus-size Black pole dancer, coach, and lifter, to talk about gym intimidation and why it blocks so many people from even get…

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Chub Rub: Fat Babes & Crop Tops
March 12, 2026

Chub Rub: Fat Babes & Crop Tops

Send a text In this episode of Big Sexy Chat, Chrystal sits down with Candace Frank, the artist and designer behind Chub Rub Clothing, a brand creating bold fashion, art, and accessories rooted in fat liberation and unapologetic joy. Candace shares how growing up fat and unable to find clothes that…

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Merf: After Awhile Crocodile
March 1, 2026

Merf: After Awhile Crocodile

Send a text This episode is a little different. It’s not a typical Big Sexy Chat conversation… It’s something softer, heavier, and a lot more personal. Merf joins Asherlee (co-producer & editor for Big Sexy Chat) for an honest, unfiltered conversation about her decision to step away from Big Se…

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JenX: The Story Behind The Talk
Feb. 12, 2026

JenX: The Story Behind The Talk

Send a text Everyone sees the talk. Few hear the story behind it. JenX: The Story Behind the Talk Fan-favorite guest Jen McClellan returns to Big Sexy Chat to take us behind the scenes of her recent TEDx talk and the deeply personal journey that led her to the red circle. Jen is the founder of Plus…

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Dare To Date: Meet Hips, Crips & Queers
Jan. 11, 2026

Dare To Date: Meet Hips, Crips & Queers

Send us a text What if dating apps were built for real bodies? Real needs. Real safety. In this episode, we sit down with Liz Gewirtz, the founder of Hips, Crips & Queers, a new dating and community platform centering queer, fat, disabled, and older folks. Liz shares what pushed her to build so…

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Recent Blog Posts

Every Episode We've Done About Sex (You're Welcome)
May 22, 2026

Every Episode We've Done About Sex (You're Welcome)

Y'all know we love talking about sexy times on Big Sexy Chat, so we thought we'd take a little time to pull all of our favorite hits together for you. What's better than a little easy access? Whether you're new here and want to know what yo…

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Fat Joy & Fat Community: Building Belonging, Celebration, and Collective Care
Oct. 16, 2025

Fat Joy & Fat Community: Building Belonging, Celebration, and Collect…

There’s something powerful about seeing a room full of fat people laughing, connecting, and existing freely. No apology. No shrinking. No need to make themselves smaller for anyone’s comfort. Just joy; loud, embodied, and contagious.Th…

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The Big Sexy Chat Guide to Fat Liberation
Oct. 2, 2025

The Big Sexy Chat Guide to Fat Liberation

Last updated: October 2, 2025Fat liberation is not just a buzzword. It’s a movement rooted in the right to exist, to live fully, and to thrive without apology. It’s about safety, dignity, love, and access for fat people, not someday, n…

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About the Hosts

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Chrystal

Big Sexy Chat Co-Host

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Merf, Co-Host

Co-Host

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Asherlee

Co-Producer & Editor

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