Every Episode We've Done About Sex (You're Welcome)

Y'all know we love talking about sexy times on Big Sexy Chat, so we thought we'd take a little time to pull all of our favorite hits together for you. What's better than a little easy access?

Whether you're new here and want to know what you've been missing, or you've been riding with us since episode one and just want a handy place to revisit the good stuff, this is your one-stop shop for every episode where we got into the actual sex part of Big Sexy Chat. Pleasure, desire, bodies, toys, kink, the stuff nobody else is saying out loud; it's all here.

Grab a snack. Clear your afternoon. You've got some listening to do.

The Toy Box

Let's start where a lot of us start: with a really good vibrator and zero regrets.

We've been talking toys since literally episode one, when we introduced the Unicorn by Cowgirl and accidentally named the episode "If He Dies He Dies." (We stand by it.) From there, the toy coverage only got better.

Am I Too Fat For Lingerie? (spoiler: absolutely not) covered sex slings and why fat babes deserve furniture that works for their bodies, which we went way deeper on in Sex Furniture For Fat Babes & Fat Babe Armor, because your sex life shouldn't require an engineering degree or a body the furniture industry bothered to design for.

Toys-4-Us brought in board-certified sexuality coach Linnea Marie to help us navigate the overwhelming world of pleasure products, and Gettin' Vibey With It was exactly the fun, open toy conversation you wish you could have with your most honest friend.

Unwrapping Pleasure: 3 Fatties, 4 Toys was us putting high-end toys to the actual test; We-Vibe and Womanizer, we may not love the name, but can't deny the way they made us feel! And ChitChat with ToyChats: The Reviews Are In dove into user-generated sex toy reviews with Cam Jennings from ToyChats.com, because real reviews from real humans matter way more than whatever a brand's marketing team cooked up.

Then there was Party in Your Panties, our Season 4 opener with Lovehoney's Kim Card, which was genuinely one of the most joyful episodes we've recorded. And if you want to go full future-of-pleasure, Thrust The Machine is where Chrystal, Merf, and Asherlee dove into sex machines, electricity play, and the entire wild history of pleasure tech. While there's so much more to talk about there, we wanted to start the conversation!

Kink, BDSM & Power Exchange

Fat bodies in kink spaces don't always get the welcome mat they deserve. We've been working to change that conversation since the beginning.

Big Sexy Chat: Kink, BDSM, Consent & Doggy Style Strap was one of our earliest episodes, diving into enthusiastic consent and what BDSM actually looks like in practice, not the sanitized version, the real one. Interview With A Curvaceous Dominatrix took that further with a guest who lives it professionally, and it's exactly as fascinating as it sounds.

Leather, Lube & Liberation: BDSM, Fat Joy & Sex Signals got into fat pleasure and power exchange in a way that felt both grounded and genuinely fun, and Inclusive Kink, Fat Pleasure, and Adaptive Sex Gear with Sportsheets' Rin Musick is essential listening if you've ever wanted fat-positive and accessible gear recommendations from someone who actually knows what they're talking about.

And then there's Knot Your Average Art: Shibari for Every Body, where non-binary rope artist Bec broke down how Shibari goes way beyond aesthetics, into something meditative, empowering, and genuinely transformative; one of our most unexpectedly beautiful episodes.

Sex Ed, But Make It Actually Useful

We love a good anatomy lesson that doesn't make you feel like you're back in a health class that forgot fat people exist.

Clitoracy: A Journey Through Pleasure's Hidden History is exactly what it sounds like: a deep, funny, enlightening dive into the history and mystery of the clitoris. We started with a book club member who has two vaginas, and it only got better from there.

Squirt Talk: Female Ejaculation Demystified with sex industry veteran Kim Airs is the conversation so many people have been too afraid to have out loud. More Than Just The Tip with Sheri Winston went deep (literally and figuratively) on anatomy, pleasure, and the layers of our sexual experience that most people never explore.

What Came Before The Big Bang? The Big Foreplay! covers foreplay and lube, including the best options for every occasion, because this stuff matters and nobody talks about it enough. And since we're talking lube, Slippery When Wet ft. Ryan McCrobie is entirely devoted to the subject, and yes, it is as fun as the name implies. Wait until you hear about the Balldo! 

Oral Sex, Contraception for Fatties & Vibe of the Week tackled topics that are criminally underserved in mainstream sex ed, contraception information that actually accounts for fat bodies is not as widely available as it should be, and we weren't going to let that slide. Booty Is In The Eye Of The Beholder came out during Anal Sex Month (yes, that's a thing) with Lulu Batista from Ohhlulucherrybox.com covering comfortable anal sex tips with zero shame and maximum helpfulness.

And if you want to get your body actually moving better in bed, Fat, Flexible & Fabulous: Stretching For Better Sex with flexibility trainer Vera is one of those episodes that sounds like it might be cute and ends up being genuinely practical in ways you'll feel immediately.

Fat Desire, Representation & Getting Freaky On Your Own Terms

BBW. Amazon. Goddess. introduced listeners to Amazon Amanda, a towering fetish icon and founder of BBW XXX Adventures, in one of our earliest and most memorable conversations about fat desire, visibility, and what it means to occupy space unapologetically. She came back later for Confessions of an Amazon to go even deeper on fetish, power, and the nuances of fat desirability.

The Porn Identity: Fat Porn Stars? Oh, yah! is Chrystal and Merf having a very necessary, honest conversation about the near-total absence of fat porn that isn't dehumanizing, and the people who are actually out here making something better. It's a real one.

A Little Something Extra

A few episodes that live in the neighborhood of sex without being purely about it, but are absolutely worth your time:

Pleasure Pot: Merging Cannabis and Sensual Exploration with Ashley Manta explores the intersection of cannabis and sexuality in a way that's genuinely eye-opening, whether you partake or not. Bedtime is Sexy Time with Big Fig Mattress makes the case that your bed is part of your sex life, and if it's not built for your body, that matters. And I'm A Hustler Baby is our sex-work-positive episode, because we believe in supporting the full range of how people relate to their bodies and their sexuality. Sex work is work. 

That's a lot of good listening, friends. Whether you're starting from the top or jumping straight to whatever section made you sit up a little straighter, we're glad you're here, and we're glad we built this.

Now go press play on something.