In this episode of Big Sexy Chat, Chrystal, Merf, and Asherlee dive piston-first into the wild, fascinating, and sometimes hilarious world of sex machines, pleasure tech, electricity play, and modern kink culture.
From 19th-century “medical devices” to today’s thrusting rigs, ride-on machines, smart toys, and hyper-realistic sex dolls, we explore how creativity, accessibility, and curiosity continue to shape sex tech. Along the way, we unpack the deep influence of queer and disabled communities on innovation, plus the very real conversations around safety, consent, and access.
This is part sex-tech history lesson, part kink education, and part comedy hour.
In this episode, we cover:
• Early “hysteria treatments” and the bizarre origins of sex tech
• The legacy of queer and disabled communities in pleasure innovation
• The truth about machines like the Sybian, Motorbunny, Cowgirl, and thrusting devices
• Smart toys, remote-controlled vibrators, e-stim, and violet wands
• Accessibility wins and fails for fat bodies, disabled bodies, and people with chronic pain
• Sex dolls, AI companions, and their emotional and therapeutic implications
• Safety, consent, sensory limits, grounding, and what not to stick anywhere
Expect curiosity, honesty, laughter, and plenty of “did we just say that out loud?” moments.
Big Sexy Chat is a fat-positive, sex-positive podcast hosted by Chrystal, Merf, and Asherlee, centered on pleasure, education, and real conversations about bodies and desire.
