Imagine getting paid $40 to review a sex toy. Yes. That’s the whole sentence. In this clip from Big Sexy Chat, we talk side hustles, sex toys, and why ToyChats is opening doors for everyday people to share honest feedback while getting compensated for their time and experience. If pleasure…
Spoiler alert: you don’t need a massive following. You just need to be real. In this clip from Big Sexy Chat, we talk about how ToyChats centers everyday people, real bodies, and honest opinions, not influencer polish. That’s the magic. That’s what makes reviews actually useful. If you’ve ever thought,…
So… what is ToyChats anyway? In this clip from Big Sexy Chat, we break down what makes ToyChats different: real people reviewing real sex toys, without brand scripts or marketing nonsense. If you’ve ever side-eyed a too-polished toy review before buying, this conversation will make you feel very seen. Honest…
Teen Merf: “I could make these dolls do things.” Adult Merf: Yep. That checks out. In this hilarious clip from Big Sexy Chat, we reflect on early curiosity, imagination, and how some personality traits are simply lifelong companions. Chaotic, funny, and deeply on brand. 🎧 Watch the full episode here:…
Queer communities. Disabled communities. Sex workers. In this clip from Big Sexy Chat, we talk about where some of the most important sex tech innovation actually comes from. From community brilliance to accessible design, this moment highlights why better, safer pleasure exists because people demanded it. Yes, there’s a “drill-do.”…
People are wildly creative when they’re horny, especially when access and pleasure are on the line. In this clip from Big Sexy Chat, Chrystal shares a DIY pleasure hack from a sex worker friend that had everyone yelling “BRILLIANT.” It’s a perfect example of how accessibility, creativity, and desire collide…
Some people ease into the weekend. Rawiyah arrives with imagination and electricity. In this clip from Big Sexy Chat, Rawiyah describes sensation play in a way that feels more like poetry than instruction. Electricity, grounding, anticipation, and the kind of sensory storytelling that makes kink feel vast, creative, and alive.…
What would change if we truly believed our bodies belong to us? In this clip from Big Sexy Chat, Rawiyah speaks to embodiment as sovereignty. Not owing access. Not owing politeness. Not apologizing for taking up space. This is about remembering ourselves after a lifetime of being pushed out of…
Before kink, Rawiyah didn’t know if anyone would even look at them. And then kink said, “Babe. You’re sexy. Act like it.” In this unforgettable clip from Big Sexy Chat, Rawiyah shares the journey from shy to self-assured, from invisibility to being seen with hunger, reverence, and desire. It’s playful,…
“Look in the mirror. Say: I like that. That’s me.” In this tender, resonant clip from Big Sexy Chat, Jeffrey Jenkins offers a simple but radical invitation: choose to see yourself with love. In a world that profits from self-hate, that choice becomes an act of rebellion. Fat, free, and…
“Fat people are human. Period.” In this powerful clip from Big Sexy Chat, Jeffrey Jenkins shares why his work is about far more than travel. It’s about restoring humanity, joy, and dignity to marginalized communities that are too often erased or reduced. Serving, advocating, and creating joy isn’t just what…
Towering presence. Decades of experience. Zero apologies. In this clip from Big Sexy Chat, the iconic Amazon Amanda talks about carving out power, pleasure, and visibility in the fetish world for over 20 years. From scissoring and smothering to building BBW XXX Adventures, this segment offers a glimpse into how…
“Learn to f*ck like you have a foreskin.” Iconic. Educational. Necessary. In this clip from Big Sexy Chat, Sheri Winston breaks down foreskin function, the sliding sleeve effect, and why friction isn’t the vagina’s best friend. This is pleasure science made accessible, practical, and very eye-opening. It’s anatomy. It’s pleasure.…
You’ve heard the myth. We busted it. And now the erotic virtuoso herself, Sheri Winston, takes it even deeper. In this clip from Big Sexy Chat, we talk about why solo sex absolutely counts as real sex, how that belief shapes our relationship with pleasure, and why reframing it matters…
Big vibes, bold curiosity, and a whole lot of kink-coded truth. In this clip from Big Sexy Chat, Merf shares her first steps into Domme energy, Chrystal brings stories fresh from a Vegas seminar, and the conversation opens up around kink signaling, fat joy, elder sex, and what it means…
In this episode of Big Sexy Chat, Chrystal, Merf, and Asherlee dive piston-first into the wild, fascinating, and sometimes hilarious world of sex machines, pleasure tech, electricity play, and modern kink culture. From 19th-century “medical devices” to today’s thrusting rigs, ride-on machines, smart toys, and hyper-realistic sex dolls, we explore…
In this powerful and deeply tender episode of Big Sexy Chat, we sit down with the brilliant Rawiyah Tariq; a Black, fat, disabled, and neurodivergent artist, writer, and healer whose work centers embodiment, ritual, and reclamation for marginalized bodies and spirits. Rawiyah shares the wisdom behind their practice, A Sovereign…
In this episode of Big Sexy Chat, we’re joined by Cam Jennings from ToyChats.com, a platform built entirely around user-generated sex toy reviews from real people. We talk about why ToyChats exists, how the platform actually works, and what separates genuinely helpful reviews from brand-driven noise. Cam breaks down how…
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In this unforgettable episode of Big Sexy Chat, we welcome the incredible Mary Lambert - musician, poet, activist, and fat liberation icon - for a conversation that’s equal parts intimate, joyful, and revolutionary. From the breakout hit Same Love to her new anthem The Tempest, Mary opens up about art…
What does it mean to carry the weight of representation as a fat, Black traveler on the global stage? In this powerful episode of Big Sexy Chat, Chrystal and Merf are joined by the incredible Jeff Jenkins—award-winning travel and food personality, speaker, and founder of Chubby Diaries. From personal blog…
Leather, lube, and a whole lot of liberation — we’re getting kinky, joyful, and unapologetically fat in this episode of BigSexyChat. 🖤 Chrystal and Merf are back with laughter, updates, and deep dives into how we signal our sexy truths, play with power, and claim pleasure at every age and…
From scissor holds to supersized porn, Amazon Amanda is back on BigSexyChat — and she’s holding nothing back. 💪🖤 Known as a towering fetish icon, professional Amazon, and founder of BBW XXX Adventures, Amanda takes us deep into her 20+ years in the fetish world, where ‘no nudity, no sex,…
From foreskins to pelvic floors, prostate play to menopause — we’re going deep with the legendary Sheri Winston in this juicy new episode of BigSexyChat. 💦 Sheri is an award-winning author, wholistic sexuality teacher, and founder of the Intimate Arts Center, and she’s here to break down pleasure, anatomy, and…
