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Send us a Text Message. Ever wrestled with a standard airplane seatbelt, praying for just an inch more of slack? Ever felt the unwelcome scrutiny of fellow passengers as you board, the silent judgment heavy as lead? Buckle up for a journey through the not-so-friendly skies as we tackle the unspoken challenges of flying while fat. We'll shine a spotlight on the airline industry's troubling approach to passenger comfort and examine the implications of policies that squeeze profits at the expense o...

Send us a Text Message. Prepare for an eye-opening and inspiring dialogue between your hosts, yours truly, and two incredible women in the world of body positivity – the remarkable Morgie Mone, and the insightful Lindsy from Big Fig Mattress Company. As we take an enlightening journey through the world of fat liberation, you'll discover how Morgie has crafted a powerful platform for encouraging self-love and embracing our bodies, just as they are. Along the way, we'll shine a spotlight on Big Fi...

Send us a Text Message. Ever wondered how fat representation in media is evolving? We're taking the conversation head-on, exploring the latest characters in shows like Never Say Never and Survival of the Thickest. We are also chuffed to chat about the upcoming Fat is Fashion documentary and Bridget Everett's new show. But, it's not all roses. We tackle some tough topics like the extreme dieting actors undertake for roles, and the societal implications that come with it. We also get real about t...

Send us a Text Message. What would it mean to you if you could be part of a community that not only recognizes your talents but also celebrates your uniqueness? Imagine an environment where plus-size individuals are valued and their contributions to their industry are rewarded. This is exactly the world, Tawana Blassingame, Executive Producer of The Full Figured Industry Awards and CEO, Editor in Chief of Queen Size Magazine. We are privileged to sit down with her in this episode as she shares h...

Send us a Text Message. Oh, my stars! We're buzzing with anticipation as we welcome the effervescent Mx. Pucks A'Plenty, co-founder of FatCon.org, into our auditory space! Brace yourself for an invigorating conversation that spans the universe of event planning, fat positivity, and the power of community. Buckle in as we unpack the details of FatCon, a festival that's set to resound with the joy of celebrating all bodies. From tantalizing fashion shows to engaging keynote speakers, this event is...

Send us a Text Message. Imagine the possibilities when combining the powerful worlds of sex and cannabis. That's exactly what Ashley Manta, an award-winning sex and relationship coach, has done by creating the term "Cannasexual", which she defines as "mindfully and deliberately combining sex and cannabis to deepen intimacy and enhance pleasure." We had the chance to explore Ashley's personal journey with cannabis, how it has changed her sex life, and her expansion into the realm of psychedelics ...

Send us a Text Message. Are you ready for an empowering and entertaining conversation exploring the world of body positivity and self-love? Join your favorite hosts, Crystal and Merf, as we discuss the crucial work of the National Association for the Advancement of Fat Acceptance (NAAFA) in advocating for fat people's rights, particularly in the medical field. We also tackle the pressing issues of fat-phobia, discrimination in the workplace, and the power of holding people accountable for their ...

Send us a Text Message. The hiatus is over! We're back and going deep in it... deep into updating about why we went on a brief hiatus in April, deep into grief, deep into emotions, and finally deep into an exciting new vibe of the week! We discuss cancer, abortion, death, and prostate play. We like to keep you on your toes. Adulting sucks. We missed you. We are back in the saddle. Merf gives us a review of the Vector 2 by We-vibe. She and her husband loved it. They give it 4.5 stars out of 5. ...

Send us a Text Message. Interview with NAAFA.org about getting legislation passed in NYC that makes it illegal to discriminate against Fat people. Thank you to Tigress & Tegan for this fantastic and super informative interview. ** As of today, the NYC legislation passed. May 17th is our publish date. Support the Show. BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at Sexy@BigSexyChat.com. Y...

Send us a Text Message. We discussed Aubrey's newest book "You just need to lose weight, and 19 other myths about fat people." Merf and I had the absolute honor of interviewing Aubrey Gordon - also known as "Your Fat Friend" and co-host of the wildly popular podcast, "Maintenance Phase." Thank you, Aubrey. We had a blast and hope you did, too. Merf starts off by describing to Aubrey why she loved the style of her new book, "You Just Need to Lose Weight." We loved her writing style, how the cha...

Send us a Text Message. How to raise kids that are not fat-phobic assholes. Thanks to Jen McLellan, the founder of Plus Mommy, PlusBirth.com, and the creator of Plus Mommy Podcast for her amazing interview. Asherlee stepped in to help me interview Jen while Merf was off having a few fun days in Atascadero. Thanks, Adherlee. We discussed so many topics about getting competent health care for your kids. Jen and Asherlee give some really great advice for dealing with your kids' healthcare provide...

Send us a Text Message. Linnea Marie can be described as an enthusiastic advocate for self-love and sex positivity. She is a Board Certified Educator and Clinical Sexuality Coach. Throughout the years Linnea has empowered the masses with knowledge of sex, sexuality, relationships, anatomy, and pleasure products. She is able to share her knowledge through her coaching services, classes, parties, and social platforms. Her ultimate goal is to encourage, educate, and sprinkle sex-positive inclusive ...

Send us a Text Message. Season 2 - We are very excited to publish our first podcast of 2023. Full of fat and Sassy information and opinions. The first half, Merf and I interview each other so you all can get to know us better. I definitely learned lots of new stuff about Merf! She learned I do not drink coffee! Blasphemy, I know. We rage, I mean discuss, the b.s. going on with Ozempic and Wegovy. (Celebrities using it for vanity purposes and leaving diabetics to have to figure out how to get m...

Send us a Text Message. Hey friends: This is our year-in-review podcast. Merf, Asherlee, and I talk about our HIGHLIGHTS of the COOL things that happened to various rad fatties in the world. Merf also prepared a "round robin" style set of questions that we all answered. She asked us our favorite episodes, our favorite guests, and new topics for 2023. I shared my PIE IN THE SKY list of my "dream" guests: Bridget Everett (Here is a link to Bridget's website.) http://www.bridgeteverett.net/ And, ...

Send us a Text Message. Support the Show. BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at Sexy@BigSexyChat.com. You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat. Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPod Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!) Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.c...

Send us a Text Message. The always fabulous Fat Liberationist and Fat Activist Ragen Chastain joins Merf and me for a discussion about how to Survive Fatphobia (and your fatphobic friends and family) during the holidays. Sign up for her substack / newsletter. It's fabulous,too! Help Ragen continue to do this important work! https://weightandhealthcare.substack.com/ Become a Member of Ragen's blog DancesWithFat.org It is only $10 to become a member and take advantage of her special offers. But,...

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#SendMerfBoobs On this episode of Big Sexy Chat, Chrystal was away so Merf and Asherlee (the Big Sexy Chat editor) played! They talked sex questions people are afraid to ask, Merf's special voice talents, giant hampsters, and so much more! Support the show

Help us by supporting our show with a $3 donation here: https://www.bigsexychat.com/support/ Special guest, Amazon Goddess Amanda https://amazonamanda.com/ We start off with a quick discussion of Merf marrying (again) her husband. The special news is that Merf and hubby were married by THE actual Kevin Smith of Clerk's fame. He was in the Sac area to promote Clerks 3 - which Merf loved. Then we welcomed our fab guest, Amazon Amanda. She tells us all about life as an Amazon. Fully clothed and s...

www.bigsexychat.com This episode begins with a discussion between Merf and me about the movie "The Whale. Merf and I share our takes on Brendan, the dreaded "fat suit" and all of the fat phobia that comes up for both of us thanks to this horrific movie. Be sure to sign up for our newsletter to enter our giveaway for a liberator sex blanket. www.Liberator.com So grateful to Ryan of All Lubed Up And Nowhere To Go. Fun conversations with Ryan about sex toy innovations like the BallDo, a toy for...

I know this will not surprise anyone, but Merf & I are Sex Work Positive. We are going to discuss some sex work in this episode. (please write a review for us and get 5 extra entries into our next drawing. write it on any of the sites or on our own site here: https://www.bigsexychat.com/reviews/ ) Curvy kindergarten art teacher who has a "voluptuous" body is creating drama in her home town in New Jersey. This created an intense discussion on my Curvy Girl: Fat Liberation FB page: Comments ab...

August is Anal Sex Month!! Tips for comfortable anal sex with Lulu Batista from Ohhlulucherrybox.com. https://linktr.ee/luluinc83 https://www.youtube.com/c/TheLulusCherryBoxReviews https://oohlulucherrybox.com/ Lulu and Chrystal discuss tips for anal play that is safe and healthy. (Remember, no one ever has to have anal sex and anything sexual should come with ENTHUSIASTIC CONSENT and everyone should be sober while negotiating this experience. Great tips and advice, Lulu. The second half of th...

Fat Liberation Artwork designed by: @studiobatslangely Happy Fat Liberation month. Be sure to check out the artwork that Bats Langley created for NAAFA.org. It's ahhhmazing! You can see it on the NAAFA.org page, btw. I hope you will sign up for our newsletter on our website: www.BigSexyChat.com - we send out about 2 newsletters each month. Plus, we have a BRAND NEW sponsor (our first sponsor) and we are SO excited. More info soon! Fat Liberation Month August 2022Welcome my co-host, Merf. Our fab...

Current Events : Listener Questions : Hot Topics Vibe of the Week with Special Guest Marina Hayes (The Rose Vibe : link here.) (Marina is the founder and creator of www.PeridotRobes.com) Welcome Sydney the Fat_TroublemakrCurrent Events: We discuss how much we love the show on Netflix “How to Build a Sex Room” Melanie Rose is the host and she is the British Naughty Mary Poppins. Merf & Chrystal both LOVE IT! Netflix has a hit on its hands. Welcome Sydney out very own #Fat_Troublemakr 10:59 Sydney...