Episodes

Welcome to Big Sexy Chat! We start off with a content warning about CNC. (Consensual Non-Consent) I explained why I missed a couple of weeks thanks to pneumonia. I'm better now. Merf: It feels like the end of the world. ALL of the progress that we made have been erased. Chrystal knows 4 people who have checked themselves into a mental health facility. Life is dark right now. Merf gives us lots of great info about coping skills and all of us just trying to survive. (Supreme Court, Roe v. Wade, C...

Bonus Episode: Merf interviews Tigress and me about our 2 Fat Hysterectomies Bonus Episode: Heavy Duty Hysterectomies Welcome Tigress Osborn Creator of Full Figure Entertainment in Oakland, CA Tigress now lives in Arizona. Fat Visibility and Fat Activism since 2008: If you are a fat person and enjoy some type of fat freedom fatties did not have before 2008, it’s likely Tigress had her hand in it. (Along with a lot of other fabulous, loud, no shit style fat activists. Thank you Tigress and to th...

Profanity Warning! I drop a lot of F BOMBS because I am fed up with diet culture and the diet industry and how they work so hard to make us feel shitty about our bodies. Also, we do get into a discussion about Anorexia and how Fat Babes can also have Anorexia, so content warning about Eating Disorders. We discuss body shame, shame about sex or feeling horny, shame about sex toys, shame about our ANYTHING, and EVERYTHING. We hope this podcast helps you to overcome your own fat shame. We decided...

Polyamory is our topic for this episode and we were so delighted to have Sydney on our podcast to help dispel Polyamory Myths. Sydney LIVES the polyamorous life. She has a husband she nests with. She has a wife who is her bestie and she is married to her, but they do not have sex. And, she has two male partners in her polycule. And, they all practice radical honesty - which is the key to almost all relationships. And, radical honesty is REQUIRED if you are polyamorous. She very clearly describe...

Merf and I have a very necessary discussion about the pitiful showing of pron that includes fat babes that are NOT dehumanizing. Fortunately, some people are making it! In the intro, we discuss how DISGUSTING the "don't say gay" bill that was put forth by the bigot and asshole Governor DeSantis in Florida. Here is info from the AP about this bigoted antiquated bill : AP Article I brought this topic up because that is ironic and hilarious how you have to say the word "Gay" every time you talk ...

**Content Warning** Please note at the [44:00] minute mark, dieting and bodybuilding are briefly discussed. If these topics are a trigger for you, please take care of yourself and skip ahead to the minute mark [48:00]. http://www.MistressJStudios.com Our podcast website is http://www.BigSexyChat.com where you can find our other podcasts. My sex toy website is http://www.BlissConnection.com In this episode, Merf and I interview my friend Mistress J about her career as a professional dominatri...

Big Sexy Chat Podcast: Episode 5 we spend a lot of time talking about foreplay and our favorite lubricants. We discuss lubes for handies, piv, and best lube for anal sex. Merf tells us how much she is loving Lizzo's new reality show - and how their reality show formula is about building each other up and not tearing each other down. How refreshing. The show is called "Let's Hear It For the Big Grrrls." Personally, I am loving the show, too. I am 3 episodes in so far. And, I have seen a lot of ...

Episode 4: Merf & I chit-chat about ENTHUSIASTIC consent, BDSM, Kink, and all kinds of other fun. We also discuss Renee Zelwegget wearing a fat suit in her lastest fatphobic role. I despise anyone wearing a fat suit. There are plenty of fat actors to hire. It's gross and should NEVERs be done - EVER. It's never ok. Thanks to a listener question, we had a fantastic discussion about fetishizing bodies; How to decide if your partner or date is fetishizing you are really into ALL of you? We also c...

This is our very first interview with a guest. We had a great time chatting with the creator of the Adipostivity Project, Substantia Jones. We had a few sound issues, but thanks to our fabulous editor, it sounds great. Thank you, Asherlee. We appreciate you. If you would like to be photographed for the Adipositivity Project, you can email Substantia at adipositivity @ gmail.com - No fat shamers, assholes, or jerks, please. Substantia also shared a few fun stories about awkward sex stories, fa...

Episode 2 is here! Merf and I are getting in our groove. (I need to get the microphone closer to my mouth.) Are you too fat for lingerie? HELL NO! We discuss why do people feel like they might be and how to get over that NOW. We mention some of our other fat activist friends like Marcy Cruz, Saucye West, and Substantia Jones of the Adipositivity Project. (So grateful to all of them for their activism.) You can find the Sex Sling on my website www.BlissConnection.com We LOVE Sportsheets brand ...

Episode 1 : BigSexyChat.com Reach out via email to Sexy@BigSexyChat.com We are two unapologetically rad fatties sitting around chewing the fat. Current Events Hot Topics Listener Email and Questions Vibe of the Week (S*x toy reviews!) (Merf reviews the Unicorn.) We will talk about all things fat! Looking for more sex toys, appliances, furniture, vibrators that work and were designed for fat babes. Artwork by Les Toil : Thank you to Les for the gorgeous logo! Support the show